Time does not exist in the spirit world. The concept of time exists. When we go to spirit, we have to get used to the fact that we don’t have it in our brain, time only exists on the earth plane because that’s what we have conditioned to believe.
But in spirit, time makes no allowances.
Time is learnt behaviour. And it takes time to accept that time does not actually exist.
If someone wants to come back, they will.